A friend just told me about a man saying something disrespectful and sleazy to her- and it pissed me off pretty bad. I am at work. The more I think about it, the more mad I am. It makes me wonder if every single person we come across is a heart or flesh-eating monster. I am so disgusted. And hurtfully disappointed in this person. I thought he was a nice, decent person. I could slap him right now.
It’s strange, this anger. I dont know what to do with it. If it was the old me, this person would have gotten a call right now with an earful of phrases he won’t forget for the rest of his life. But I am older now, and we have loved ones in common. Aurgh. I have to think before I act, and hold my horses. But in my head, I have vision of throwing a stake through him.
Also, I know the most lethal type of scolding are the quiet, gentle, stern snake-like comments. Words you think about later, wors that slowly dig ahole and proggresively make you feel more and more hurt and ashamed of what you’ve done. They eat away at you.
She’s my FRIEND, and no one should be talked to like that. And just thinking about it makes me tear so badly at work.
I don’t know what to do with this anger. I really don’t. I feel torn.
oh dear.. i’m sorry i upset you. I’m cool. =( Really it’s no biggie. People are people. maybe it’s the norm there. Really sweets.. thanks for listening. But i don’t think he meant any real harm. and most men, it is unfortunate, are flesh eating heart eating monsters most of the time. =)
I msged u for new yr’s woman! Did you receive it? Anyway Happy new yr babe… I didn’t have an internet connection for an entire month in Sg.